3 years ago
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Happy 1/2 Birthday Jessica
Happy 1/2 Birthday to my mama's Jessica.
Last night when I tucked you into bed and we were laughing, I so could not believe that you have been in my life 9 1/2 years. I wasn't sure how I was going to handle having a girl with all the bows, shoes and the color pink, but I have done pretty well and have enjoyed it.
You have taught me a lot. You have such insight and are not afraid to speak up. I love your smile and your laugh-especially when you really LAUGH!
You have gone through phases such as Hannah Montana, Miley, the Cheetah Girls, the Wiggles, High School Musical and are now a true fan of Team Edward from Twilight and New Moon.
I tell you every night thank you for letting me be your mom and I mean it.
Thank you for the taco picnics, for letting me sing and dance in a store, for the sword fight in Target and for the sing a longs in the car...oh yeah and the FABULOUS cupcakes and cookies.
I love you very much! Happy 1/2 Birthday!!!
Love,
Mom
P.S. Happy Birthday to my neighbor Jenn
Last night when I tucked you into bed and we were laughing, I so could not believe that you have been in my life 9 1/2 years. I wasn't sure how I was going to handle having a girl with all the bows, shoes and the color pink, but I have done pretty well and have enjoyed it.
You have taught me a lot. You have such insight and are not afraid to speak up. I love your smile and your laugh-especially when you really LAUGH!
You have gone through phases such as Hannah Montana, Miley, the Cheetah Girls, the Wiggles, High School Musical and are now a true fan of Team Edward from Twilight and New Moon.
I tell you every night thank you for letting me be your mom and I mean it.
Thank you for the taco picnics, for letting me sing and dance in a store, for the sword fight in Target and for the sing a longs in the car...oh yeah and the FABULOUS cupcakes and cookies.
I love you very much! Happy 1/2 Birthday!!!
Love,
Mom
P.S. Happy Birthday to my neighbor Jenn
Friday, January 8, 2010
Happy 1/2 Birthday Ricky
Today my little boy turned 13 and a HALF! My little boy who is 6 feet tall and wears a men's 13 size shoe. He says it's no big deal because he will just tell everyone he is 13...but when we sang "Happy Half Birthday" to him on the way to school, that impish little smile broke through as he shook his head. No celebration though tonight as he had a draft to attend and he was lucky enough to get the #1 pick.
I am proud of the young man that he is becoming. I so can't believe that 13 1/2 years have gone by with him as part of my life. He has taught me a lot. We have learned a lot together. We have agreed, disagreed and agreed to disagree at times. We have made each other mad, sad and frustrated. We have made each other laugh and smile. We have to see who gets the last word in...
He is my son and I am very blessed. I love you Ricky Daniel!
Happy Half Birthday!
Love,
Mom
Peace
I am proud of the young man that he is becoming. I so can't believe that 13 1/2 years have gone by with him as part of my life. He has taught me a lot. We have learned a lot together. We have agreed, disagreed and agreed to disagree at times. We have made each other mad, sad and frustrated. We have made each other laugh and smile. We have to see who gets the last word in...
He is my son and I am very blessed. I love you Ricky Daniel!
Happy Half Birthday!
Love,
Mom
Peace
Thursday, January 7, 2010
An Apple, Acupuncture and Pacers
well, I was really bummed that I did not get to blog last night-major computer issues that are now resolved. So her it is in a nutshell
1. an Apple bit me today and it was good
2. Finally able to go see Dr, Shen, our acupuncturist. her truly is the best
3. Pacers Basketball started tonight and it was great-not sure how many game we will win, BUT we have great kids with super attitudes.
Until tomorrow...good night
Peace
1. an Apple bit me today and it was good
2. Finally able to go see Dr, Shen, our acupuncturist. her truly is the best
3. Pacers Basketball started tonight and it was great-not sure how many game we will win, BUT we have great kids with super attitudes.
Until tomorrow...good night
Peace
Tuesday, January 5, 2010
We got your back
At Tenaya we are very protective of one another. You mess with someone and there are about 5-6 other people that are affected by that display of disrespect. Today thing came to a head and I had just had it. I do not like it when someone plays the "who me?" card. Then to ask silly questions and act astounded at the answers.
Don't pick on Mark....bottom line. Not a good move because as one staff member stated, "he is such a sweetheart." We protect each other like a mama protects her cub. If anything good came out of today, it's that Mark saw or actually heard that he is highly respected at our school.
So as we venture on into the next 6 months of school, a balance needs to be made. I am frustrated by the immaturity of those who know they are wrong. My suggestion is keep the earpiece and move on. Many of us bleed Tenaya blue. We will see many more administrators before we leave. Our concern is the kids. Can you believe it-caring about kids. Wow, what a concept.
Until next time...peace
Don't pick on Mark....bottom line. Not a good move because as one staff member stated, "he is such a sweetheart." We protect each other like a mama protects her cub. If anything good came out of today, it's that Mark saw or actually heard that he is highly respected at our school.
So as we venture on into the next 6 months of school, a balance needs to be made. I am frustrated by the immaturity of those who know they are wrong. My suggestion is keep the earpiece and move on. Many of us bleed Tenaya blue. We will see many more administrators before we leave. Our concern is the kids. Can you believe it-caring about kids. Wow, what a concept.
Until next time...peace
Monday, January 4, 2010
Dance and Draft
Today was my first day back to work. Ricky and Jessica had their last day off. Jessica stayed with my mom and helped with the preschoolers. My mom says she is a natural and enjoyed every minute of it. Ricky went to Grandma Jennie's house. He made his infamous salsa, they went to In-n-Out and watched Gran Torino. He had a great day. Both are lucky that they have their grandparent's house to go to on a daily basis.
Jessica has wanted to enroll in a dance class and today was Day 1 for the new semester. She is taking hip hop and had a blast. Her smile said it all. She already wants the "real dance shoes." I hope she continues it as the smile on her face was priceless.
While Jess was at dance, Ricky was attending his first draft. He was so proud of his picks. He had the 3rd pick and evidently was successful in his choices.
As they are both winding down for bed, they both were blessed with a great day. They are back to school tomorrow and back to the daily routine that comes with it.
There is nothing better than to have two happy kids.
Richard started running again tonight. We are going to do the Bay to Breakers on May 16th. At least that is the plan.
Today, January 4th is also the birthday of one of the greatest women in my life. My Great-grandmother Priscilla Villa. She was a class act and taught my mom to be the woman she is. Grandma Villa lives on in our life daily. I was blessed to know her and love her.
Until tomorrow...
Peace
Jessica has wanted to enroll in a dance class and today was Day 1 for the new semester. She is taking hip hop and had a blast. Her smile said it all. She already wants the "real dance shoes." I hope she continues it as the smile on her face was priceless.
While Jess was at dance, Ricky was attending his first draft. He was so proud of his picks. He had the 3rd pick and evidently was successful in his choices.
As they are both winding down for bed, they both were blessed with a great day. They are back to school tomorrow and back to the daily routine that comes with it.
There is nothing better than to have two happy kids.
Richard started running again tonight. We are going to do the Bay to Breakers on May 16th. At least that is the plan.
Today, January 4th is also the birthday of one of the greatest women in my life. My Great-grandmother Priscilla Villa. She was a class act and taught my mom to be the woman she is. Grandma Villa lives on in our life daily. I was blessed to know her and love her.
Until tomorrow...
Peace
Sunday, January 3, 2010
"I'm Free"
Those two simple words..."I'm free." I have heard them on a daily basis since Christmas Vacation started 16 days ago. It was a simple statement, a simple request. A request for a lunch date. A lunch date with my daughter.
Every day something seemed to come up. Every day, I heard those words. Last night I was kindly reminded that vacation was over and she was still "free." I could not let her down.
We both slept in until 10:30 since we were up having a bonfire/smores get together with our neighbors. Ricky was at the Raiders game with my dad. Richard had gone golfing. Focus Michelle-get it together.
She was in the recliner when I approached her. I looked into her brown eyes and asked, "are you doing anything for lunch today?" Her response was simple with a hint of sarcasm..."I thought you'd never ask." She wanted to include my mom so she made the call. It was a lunch date. Three generations sitting around chips and salsa. Laughing and talking. It was a great lunch date. A sense of satisfaction on her face as we got back into the car and she just looked at me.
There will be a time when she won't want a date with me. Until then, I hope she has many more "free" days.
I love you Jessica.
Love,
Mom
Peace
Every day something seemed to come up. Every day, I heard those words. Last night I was kindly reminded that vacation was over and she was still "free." I could not let her down.
We both slept in until 10:30 since we were up having a bonfire/smores get together with our neighbors. Ricky was at the Raiders game with my dad. Richard had gone golfing. Focus Michelle-get it together.
She was in the recliner when I approached her. I looked into her brown eyes and asked, "are you doing anything for lunch today?" Her response was simple with a hint of sarcasm..."I thought you'd never ask." She wanted to include my mom so she made the call. It was a lunch date. Three generations sitting around chips and salsa. Laughing and talking. It was a great lunch date. A sense of satisfaction on her face as we got back into the car and she just looked at me.
There will be a time when she won't want a date with me. Until then, I hope she has many more "free" days.
I love you Jessica.
Love,
Mom
Peace
Saturday, January 2, 2010
Pancakes
A simple compound word. pan-cakes. A word that has a bit of history in our family. My Great-Grandmother Priscilla Villa taught my mom how to make pancakes from scratch. Not Bisquick, not shoot the batter from the can...but homemade.
These pancakes are fabulous. It's the type of recipe that is not written down. It's the type where I just sit and watch my mom throw in a little bit of this and a little bit of that.
Here I am 44 years old and have NEVER attempted making these sacred breakfast items. When my mom went to Ireland in 2000, my dad and I were craving them along with my sister so... my sister tried and although this seems unreal-there was so much sugar in the mix that crystals formed on top. They were good. Obviously, still a topic of conversation.
So today, I called my mom. I asked her for the recipe. Her reply was, "are you going to make them?" Her tone of doubt put me to the test. "Of course I am," I said to myself.
With activity in the kitchen, both Ricky and Jessica's curiosity peaked. "What are you doing?" "Absolutely nothing," I stated.
Well, let me tell you. Success hit 1976! The pancakes were phenomenal. I literally had a tear in my eye as I watched those little golden cakes form bubbles as I was about to turn them. Picking up the spatula I begin to flip and-"you have got to be kidding me!" The new grill I was using was too hot! I finally found the right setting and we each got one pancake out of the first Villa Pancake Recipe. Ricky and Jessica were shocked. "Can you make some more?"
So I whipped up my second batch, turned the grill on and we all enjoyed "Grandma Villa's/Nana's Pancakes."
As I sat here typing this, Ricky came around the corner on his way to the shower and said, "Mom, those pancakes were the BOMB."
Validation, yes. Happiness, yes. A recipe that won't get lost, yes.
Amazing what a little compound word can do:
Today I made homemade pancakes with my grandmother's recipe.
I know my Grandma Villa is looking down and smiling at me.
Peace
These pancakes are fabulous. It's the type of recipe that is not written down. It's the type where I just sit and watch my mom throw in a little bit of this and a little bit of that.
Here I am 44 years old and have NEVER attempted making these sacred breakfast items. When my mom went to Ireland in 2000, my dad and I were craving them along with my sister so... my sister tried and although this seems unreal-there was so much sugar in the mix that crystals formed on top. They were good. Obviously, still a topic of conversation.
So today, I called my mom. I asked her for the recipe. Her reply was, "are you going to make them?" Her tone of doubt put me to the test. "Of course I am," I said to myself.
With activity in the kitchen, both Ricky and Jessica's curiosity peaked. "What are you doing?" "Absolutely nothing," I stated.
Well, let me tell you. Success hit 1976! The pancakes were phenomenal. I literally had a tear in my eye as I watched those little golden cakes form bubbles as I was about to turn them. Picking up the spatula I begin to flip and-"you have got to be kidding me!" The new grill I was using was too hot! I finally found the right setting and we each got one pancake out of the first Villa Pancake Recipe. Ricky and Jessica were shocked. "Can you make some more?"
So I whipped up my second batch, turned the grill on and we all enjoyed "Grandma Villa's/Nana's Pancakes."
As I sat here typing this, Ricky came around the corner on his way to the shower and said, "Mom, those pancakes were the BOMB."
Validation, yes. Happiness, yes. A recipe that won't get lost, yes.
Amazing what a little compound word can do:
Today I made homemade pancakes with my grandmother's recipe.
I know my Grandma Villa is looking down and smiling at me.
Peace
Friday, January 1, 2010
January 1, 2010
Happy New Year!
Wow, I can't believe that it was just a mere hour ago that we welcomed in 2010. Ten years ago tonight we were like many others in the world worried about Y2K. We were on the Mall in DC ringing in the New Year with a couple thousand of our closest friends. Ricky was 3 and a half and I was just pregnant with Jessica. It was cold that night, but it was spectacular. I remember when Luther Vandross came onto stage-I just love that man. We survived. Many things have happened in my life in the past ten years. It seemed like a blink of the eye but here I am, ten years older.
In the past 10 years here are a few things I have done:
*had another child-Jessica. Cool to have kids born in two different centuries.
*built a house
*become a Nina to Aidan and Kenna
*lost two of my favorite dogs, Hijo and Negro
*welcomed 2 new dogs, Max and Fenway
*become a travel ball mom living out of a suitcase 2 weekends a month
*been to Cooperstown 3 times- a total of 5 weeks
*watch my daughter learn how to ride a bike
*watch my daughter in the Nutcracker
*met great friends at Creative Escape
*started a blog
*Tweeted
*Facebook-complete with a farm and aquarium
*spent 26 days in the hospital watching my son fight MRSA
*watched Jessica go crazy at Libby Lu
*seen Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus in concert 3 times
*watched Richard fall in love with fishing
*watched Richard fall in love with golfing
*watched my 2 kids in productions at school
*watched Ricky hit a walk off HR despite the crappy situation he was in
*sat back and let Jessica develop her love for baking
*eaten breakfast at my mom and dad's house every school day
*bought groceries so Ricky could make his salsa
*thrown some pretty stinkin' good birthday parties
*been to Hawaii, Vegas, Mexico, Arizona
*owned 3 cars
*trusted someone and lost my first home
*been to a Chris Brown and Cheetah Girls concert
*celebrated Disneyland's 50th Birthday
*went on a Disney Cruise
*scrapbooked
*done too many loads of laundry-think i am OCD about this
*challenged something and won
*take medicine every night before bed
*got Aidan's first kiss (my nephew)
*made birthday banners
*made trips back and forth to Valley Children's
*learned how to give IV drugs at home thru a Pic Line
*made tacos and salsa
learned how to make my Grandma Villa and mom's rice
*collected Boxtops
*cried when Luther Vandross died
*helped the homeless
*have seen friends bury their parents
*lost a friend
*witnessed Jessica get her first hair cut in honor of Kim Juarez
*watched two kids grow into confident people
*drank many Venti Non-fat, Decaf Mochas 200 degrees with whip
*ask for my Mc Donald'd fries to be HOT and FRESH
*grateful that my mother inlaw drives y kids to school every day
*watched former students become successful
*buried a few former students
*bought an iPhone
*witnessed my kids become interested in the world around them
*saw two towers fall
*watched a 6 year old become obsessed with 9/11
*watched my parents get older
*went to Oprah
*love Grey's Anatomy, Survivor and Private Practice
*my MIL's special tamales and burritos for me
*watched a plane land on the Hudson River
*flew in a helicopter-it was cool when we hovered over our block
*saw Michelle Obama at UC Merced's Graduation
*watched the Tigers go from worst to first in one year of Little League
*gone on taco picnics
*have made spaghetti tacos
*watched my daughter become obsessed with Twilight
*Slurpee Fridays
*Subway sandwiches
*been pushed off of a freeway on ramp by a drunk driver
*saw Josh Groban, Barbra Streisand, Il Divo and Bocelli in concert
*reconnected with my cousins
*went on a SMC roommate reunion
*have seen the State of CA disregard education and it's students
*danced and sang driving down the road with my kids
*been to many Disney on Ice
*loved my family
*been proud of my family
*been frustrated with my family
*been thankful for my family standing by my side
although many things are missing-a lot happens in ten years, all I can say is I am grateful for the past ten years. There were a lot of tears, a lot of laughter. a lot of growth.
I welcome you 2010 and all that you will bring. I know it will be a good year. How can it not be...I have my family by my side.
Peace
Wow, I can't believe that it was just a mere hour ago that we welcomed in 2010. Ten years ago tonight we were like many others in the world worried about Y2K. We were on the Mall in DC ringing in the New Year with a couple thousand of our closest friends. Ricky was 3 and a half and I was just pregnant with Jessica. It was cold that night, but it was spectacular. I remember when Luther Vandross came onto stage-I just love that man. We survived. Many things have happened in my life in the past ten years. It seemed like a blink of the eye but here I am, ten years older.
In the past 10 years here are a few things I have done:
*had another child-Jessica. Cool to have kids born in two different centuries.
*built a house
*become a Nina to Aidan and Kenna
*lost two of my favorite dogs, Hijo and Negro
*welcomed 2 new dogs, Max and Fenway
*become a travel ball mom living out of a suitcase 2 weekends a month
*been to Cooperstown 3 times- a total of 5 weeks
*watch my daughter learn how to ride a bike
*watch my daughter in the Nutcracker
*met great friends at Creative Escape
*started a blog
*Tweeted
*Facebook-complete with a farm and aquarium
*spent 26 days in the hospital watching my son fight MRSA
*watched Jessica go crazy at Libby Lu
*seen Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus in concert 3 times
*watched Richard fall in love with fishing
*watched Richard fall in love with golfing
*watched my 2 kids in productions at school
*watched Ricky hit a walk off HR despite the crappy situation he was in
*sat back and let Jessica develop her love for baking
*eaten breakfast at my mom and dad's house every school day
*bought groceries so Ricky could make his salsa
*thrown some pretty stinkin' good birthday parties
*been to Hawaii, Vegas, Mexico, Arizona
*owned 3 cars
*trusted someone and lost my first home
*been to a Chris Brown and Cheetah Girls concert
*celebrated Disneyland's 50th Birthday
*went on a Disney Cruise
*scrapbooked
*done too many loads of laundry-think i am OCD about this
*challenged something and won
*take medicine every night before bed
*got Aidan's first kiss (my nephew)
*made birthday banners
*made trips back and forth to Valley Children's
*learned how to give IV drugs at home thru a Pic Line
*made tacos and salsa
learned how to make my Grandma Villa and mom's rice
*collected Boxtops
*cried when Luther Vandross died
*helped the homeless
*have seen friends bury their parents
*lost a friend
*witnessed Jessica get her first hair cut in honor of Kim Juarez
*watched two kids grow into confident people
*drank many Venti Non-fat, Decaf Mochas 200 degrees with whip
*ask for my Mc Donald'd fries to be HOT and FRESH
*grateful that my mother inlaw drives y kids to school every day
*watched former students become successful
*buried a few former students
*bought an iPhone
*witnessed my kids become interested in the world around them
*saw two towers fall
*watched a 6 year old become obsessed with 9/11
*watched my parents get older
*went to Oprah
*love Grey's Anatomy, Survivor and Private Practice
*my MIL's special tamales and burritos for me
*watched a plane land on the Hudson River
*flew in a helicopter-it was cool when we hovered over our block
*saw Michelle Obama at UC Merced's Graduation
*watched the Tigers go from worst to first in one year of Little League
*gone on taco picnics
*have made spaghetti tacos
*watched my daughter become obsessed with Twilight
*Slurpee Fridays
*Subway sandwiches
*been pushed off of a freeway on ramp by a drunk driver
*saw Josh Groban, Barbra Streisand, Il Divo and Bocelli in concert
*reconnected with my cousins
*went on a SMC roommate reunion
*have seen the State of CA disregard education and it's students
*danced and sang driving down the road with my kids
*been to many Disney on Ice
*loved my family
*been proud of my family
*been frustrated with my family
*been thankful for my family standing by my side
although many things are missing-a lot happens in ten years, all I can say is I am grateful for the past ten years. There were a lot of tears, a lot of laughter. a lot of growth.
I welcome you 2010 and all that you will bring. I know it will be a good year. How can it not be...I have my family by my side.
Peace
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
"We Believe"- UC Merced Class of 2009
May 16, 2009 was definitely a historic day for UC Merced and our hometown Merced. Merced is commonly referred to as "Merdead," but that weekend, thanks to a bunch of innovative graduates of the Class of 2009...Merced came alive!
We landed three tickets and tossed the idea back and forth. WE knew it was going to be hot...but it was REALLY HOT!!
Thank goodness to some friends that live directly across the street from the UC, we did not have to be shuttled in. WE parked at their house and just walked across the street. Thank you Cook family.
As we drove closer to the campus the excitement and energy grew. We had no idea what was in store for us, but we were ready.

As we entered campus it was a sight that still gives me goosebumps. The awe in the air was breathtaking. We went and found our seats and then we were off to get some of our favorite burritos from the campus cafeteria. Free water was passed out. Everyone was on their best behavior...except for Mr. HEAT! It was UGLY-HOT. Some people were very creative in their attempts to stay cool, while others sat for hours only to be taken away before Michelle Obama spoke.

This gentleman was innovative and his attempt at staying cool was our favorite. Yes, that is his wife's purse and the Graduation program.
Who says a cardboard box can't be a hat?
Jessica, Ricky and Kelly Doll-they so love her!
While we were waiting we saw a lot of people that we knew. Everyone shared the same feelings...there was no way they could pass up this historic event. Jessica even learned how to flirt a bot as "Kelly Doll" took her to meet some Secret Service agents. Jessica was supposed to ask them if they wore coooling packs under their suits, but she "chickened out" so poor Kelly had to do all the talking.

So we sat, and sat, 3 1/2 hours and then the crowd started to stir. The anticipation that was flowing throughout the crowd saw the finish line. There was some commotion behind us and there SHE was...walking with the graduates. Impressive. Here she is, The First Lady, Michelle Obama, walking in...no one expected her to walk...especially in that HEAT. She smiled, she waved...humble-simplicity is the best way that I can adress the way I felt when I saw her. She was no better than anyone else. She endured the heat and the graduation walk like everyone else.

Their were cheers and whistles. Pride was everywhere. What an accomplishment for the Class of 2009. Before Michelle spoke, the video that was sent toher was shown. In addition to the video a huge letter writing campaign had taken place and 900 Valentine's Day cards had been sent to her. She let everyone know that it wasn't because of her friendship with Dianne Feinstein's husband that she was ther, it was because her staff told her, "she needed to do this." The video was great, my favorite slide was this one...gee, I wonder why.
Michelle's speech was incredible. She spoke from the heart on the importance of giving back to all those that have helped you get to where you are at. To bleieve that things can be accomplished, if YOU BELIEVE!
Ricky and Jessica were troopers but at one point, I knew it was time when Jessica asked, "if we can just go now." Ricky then thought if we hurried we would be able to see her motorcade when it left...so off we went. We talked to a few CHP officers and told them that Papa was a CHP. We asked of we could see her leave and they told us where we could stand. All of a sudden a man came out of nowhere and aksed if he could stand with us-okay, sure. Within minutes, cars started moving, the motorcylces revved and here SHE came. I was behind the camera and Ricky and Jessica were yelling and waving. All of a sudden, the man started yelling SHE waved at THEM, SHE waved at THEM. Ricky and Jessica are screaming, SHE waved at US. Although I did not catch that on camera, I was glad that man was their to witness that indeed, Michelle Obama had waved to my two kids-that was cool!

She is on the passenger side.
So we stood there in the heat and watched as this historical event came to an end. In 11 minutes she was back at Castle Air Force Base boarding her plane.
So gratefulwe did it. So grateful we sat in the heat. So grateful my children witnessed history. So grateful for the UC Merced's Class of 2009. So grateful that someone so powerful waved to my children. So grateful that she realized that recognizing them would have a lasting impresion on them. So grateful we did it together.
Peace.
We landed three tickets and tossed the idea back and forth. WE knew it was going to be hot...but it was REALLY HOT!!
Thank goodness to some friends that live directly across the street from the UC, we did not have to be shuttled in. WE parked at their house and just walked across the street. Thank you Cook family.
As we drove closer to the campus the excitement and energy grew. We had no idea what was in store for us, but we were ready.
As we entered campus it was a sight that still gives me goosebumps. The awe in the air was breathtaking. We went and found our seats and then we were off to get some of our favorite burritos from the campus cafeteria. Free water was passed out. Everyone was on their best behavior...except for Mr. HEAT! It was UGLY-HOT. Some people were very creative in their attempts to stay cool, while others sat for hours only to be taken away before Michelle Obama spoke.
This gentleman was innovative and his attempt at staying cool was our favorite. Yes, that is his wife's purse and the Graduation program.
Who says a cardboard box can't be a hat?
Jessica, Ricky and Kelly Doll-they so love her!
While we were waiting we saw a lot of people that we knew. Everyone shared the same feelings...there was no way they could pass up this historic event. Jessica even learned how to flirt a bot as "Kelly Doll" took her to meet some Secret Service agents. Jessica was supposed to ask them if they wore coooling packs under their suits, but she "chickened out" so poor Kelly had to do all the talking.
So we sat, and sat, 3 1/2 hours and then the crowd started to stir. The anticipation that was flowing throughout the crowd saw the finish line. There was some commotion behind us and there SHE was...walking with the graduates. Impressive. Here she is, The First Lady, Michelle Obama, walking in...no one expected her to walk...especially in that HEAT. She smiled, she waved...humble-simplicity is the best way that I can adress the way I felt when I saw her. She was no better than anyone else. She endured the heat and the graduation walk like everyone else.
Their were cheers and whistles. Pride was everywhere. What an accomplishment for the Class of 2009. Before Michelle spoke, the video that was sent toher was shown. In addition to the video a huge letter writing campaign had taken place and 900 Valentine's Day cards had been sent to her. She let everyone know that it wasn't because of her friendship with Dianne Feinstein's husband that she was ther, it was because her staff told her, "she needed to do this." The video was great, my favorite slide was this one...gee, I wonder why.
Michelle's speech was incredible. She spoke from the heart on the importance of giving back to all those that have helped you get to where you are at. To bleieve that things can be accomplished, if YOU BELIEVE!
Ricky and Jessica were troopers but at one point, I knew it was time when Jessica asked, "if we can just go now." Ricky then thought if we hurried we would be able to see her motorcade when it left...so off we went. We talked to a few CHP officers and told them that Papa was a CHP. We asked of we could see her leave and they told us where we could stand. All of a sudden a man came out of nowhere and aksed if he could stand with us-okay, sure. Within minutes, cars started moving, the motorcylces revved and here SHE came. I was behind the camera and Ricky and Jessica were yelling and waving. All of a sudden, the man started yelling SHE waved at THEM, SHE waved at THEM. Ricky and Jessica are screaming, SHE waved at US. Although I did not catch that on camera, I was glad that man was their to witness that indeed, Michelle Obama had waved to my two kids-that was cool!
She is on the passenger side.
So we stood there in the heat and watched as this historical event came to an end. In 11 minutes she was back at Castle Air Force Base boarding her plane.
Peace.
Friday, May 15, 2009
Glad We Took the Trip...
What an absolute medical mystery of a week we had at our house this past week. Ricky started it with a round of two MRSA spots on Sunday. Septra-bye bye MRSA. Jessica comes home Monday night from Ricky's game and WOW, a hum dinger on her leg...to Children's we go. Well, the Septra did not work, She then got bit by a bug, scratched, and on Wednesday she had 5 new spots...back to Children's. It was crazy, sleepless and a bit trying at times...listening to a kid SCREAM for 32 minutes straight wears on one's nerves especially after you hear the nurse say calmly to him, "honey, we haven't even done anything yet." Thanks to all the support we got while we were on the MRSA train this past week.
Jessica won two writing awards in the Merced County Writing Festival. WOO HOO!!!A 1st and a 3rd! We were so proud of her and her accomplishment. She awards were given on her two writing pieces, one called, "The Trip," and the other based on the book "Teammates." She was still feeling miserable after the awards ceremony so I pulled her and Ricky out of school. I wanted to make the day special despite my earlier plans of going home and just sleeping, because sleep really is not a necessity to me. Sleep is sometimes a waste of time in my world. I will catch up on it one day...one day.

So we took a trip out to UC Merced to see all the preparations for it's first Commencement and for First Lady, Michelle Obama, who will be addressing the graduates. We had lunch in the student cafeteria, Jessica "misplaced" her bowl of Chinese and opted for nachos. We spoke to people setting up and ran into a few people we knew. We just happened to be in the right place at the right time and we were able to meet UC Merced's Chancellor, Steve Kang. He is a very gracious gentleman and the kids were happy they got to meet him. We looked at the exhibit called "Transitions," that was done by a friend of ours, Roger Wyan. The longer we spent out there and the more people we spoke to, we decided that we could not pass up the opportunity and will be a part of all of the excitement tomorrow, May 16, 2009. UC Merced is only 2-3 miles from our house and since Ricky and Jessica are excited, I cannot pass this historical day up. We will be a part of history, and that is always a cool thing to be.
Peace.
Jessica won two writing awards in the Merced County Writing Festival. WOO HOO!!!A 1st and a 3rd! We were so proud of her and her accomplishment. She awards were given on her two writing pieces, one called, "The Trip," and the other based on the book "Teammates." She was still feeling miserable after the awards ceremony so I pulled her and Ricky out of school. I wanted to make the day special despite my earlier plans of going home and just sleeping, because sleep really is not a necessity to me. Sleep is sometimes a waste of time in my world. I will catch up on it one day...one day.

So we took a trip out to UC Merced to see all the preparations for it's first Commencement and for First Lady, Michelle Obama, who will be addressing the graduates. We had lunch in the student cafeteria, Jessica "misplaced" her bowl of Chinese and opted for nachos. We spoke to people setting up and ran into a few people we knew. We just happened to be in the right place at the right time and we were able to meet UC Merced's Chancellor, Steve Kang. He is a very gracious gentleman and the kids were happy they got to meet him. We looked at the exhibit called "Transitions," that was done by a friend of ours, Roger Wyan. The longer we spent out there and the more people we spoke to, we decided that we could not pass up the opportunity and will be a part of all of the excitement tomorrow, May 16, 2009. UC Merced is only 2-3 miles from our house and since Ricky and Jessica are excited, I cannot pass this historical day up. We will be a part of history, and that is always a cool thing to be.
Peace.
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
A little cheese, movin' a bus and Twilight
Last week was a fun week for 1976. There was so much going on as we prepared for Jessica's Birthday Party. Her birthday is actually in August, but we are in Cooperstown and once summer hits, it is hard to round up friends.
Friday, May 8 was the unveiling of the Extreme Makeover by Neighbor Jenn. It was a very anticipated event and it brought me to tears as I can't believe that I get to wake up to this every day.
While Neighbor Jenn was busy making our house into SPECTACULAR, Jessica's class had their field trip at the Hilmar Cheese Factory. They went through several stations, but the favorite, go figure, was when they got to make their own ice cream.


Pictures from the "BUS" unveiling will be a separate post.
Here are a few pictures from the Twilight adventure. I got a compliment from one of the dads who said the invitations were the "coolest he had ever seen!"

I made the traditional banner, but she had no idea and was totally surprised and thrilled when she saw it Saturday morning. A few, "OMGs" were screamed.


Babu made up these totally cool popcorn tub goodie bags for each girl. They were a hit. Thanks Babu!
Celebrating at Build a Bear. These four girls got many head turns as they strolled through the mall, arms intertwined, matching purses and hair flopping. It was a sight. Many smiles were shared as they strutted by.
Watch out world, here they come!
Jessica with her Birthday Sundae compliments of the singing crew at Red Robin. Those four girls entertained more people that night. I so wish I would have gotten a picture of their bears in the high chairs. It was such a "classic" evening. They even count, how many times this and how many times that, I was like, "how many times are you going to keep counting!" Ooops, now I am counting!
Sunday morning brought Starbucks and donuts. Before we knew it, it was time for everyone to go home.
Jessica is blessed to have great friends. When planning her party she had no limits, (within reason, of course) She thought about it for a few days and her list shortened. I asked her why. She said she wanted her real friends, not just a bunch of girls so she would get a lot of presents. I am glad she knows the difference at this young age.
As I reflect on Jessica's party, I remembered my own sleepovers and how even 35 years later, some things never change.
I learned that little girls are like big girls except they can't quite put a name on it.
Little girls truly emulate what they see.
Little girls can have great manners-that is a biggy.
Little girls easily accept a new friend into the bunch.
Little girls scream and giggle.
Little girls LOVE the new Hannah Montana CD. (Shaun Cassidy for me)
Little girls can pop it , lock it and polka dot it.
Little girls love to go cruisin' down Main Street.
Little girls have their own language.
Little girls have their own "looks."
Little girls will grow up to be powerful young women.
Little girls remind us of what it was like to be little.
Little girls make the world a special place.
Peace.
Friday, May 8 was the unveiling of the Extreme Makeover by Neighbor Jenn. It was a very anticipated event and it brought me to tears as I can't believe that I get to wake up to this every day.
While Neighbor Jenn was busy making our house into SPECTACULAR, Jessica's class had their field trip at the Hilmar Cheese Factory. They went through several stations, but the favorite, go figure, was when they got to make their own ice cream.



Pictures from the "BUS" unveiling will be a separate post.
Here are a few pictures from the Twilight adventure. I got a compliment from one of the dads who said the invitations were the "coolest he had ever seen!"

I made the traditional banner, but she had no idea and was totally surprised and thrilled when she saw it Saturday morning. A few, "OMGs" were screamed.


Babu made up these totally cool popcorn tub goodie bags for each girl. They were a hit. Thanks Babu!
Celebrating at Build a Bear. These four girls got many head turns as they strolled through the mall, arms intertwined, matching purses and hair flopping. It was a sight. Many smiles were shared as they strutted by.
Watch out world, here they come!
Jessica with her Birthday Sundae compliments of the singing crew at Red Robin. Those four girls entertained more people that night. I so wish I would have gotten a picture of their bears in the high chairs. It was such a "classic" evening. They even count, how many times this and how many times that, I was like, "how many times are you going to keep counting!" Ooops, now I am counting!
Sunday morning brought Starbucks and donuts. Before we knew it, it was time for everyone to go home.Jessica is blessed to have great friends. When planning her party she had no limits, (within reason, of course) She thought about it for a few days and her list shortened. I asked her why. She said she wanted her real friends, not just a bunch of girls so she would get a lot of presents. I am glad she knows the difference at this young age.
As I reflect on Jessica's party, I remembered my own sleepovers and how even 35 years later, some things never change.
I learned that little girls are like big girls except they can't quite put a name on it.
Little girls truly emulate what they see.
Little girls can have great manners-that is a biggy.
Little girls easily accept a new friend into the bunch.
Little girls scream and giggle.
Little girls LOVE the new Hannah Montana CD. (Shaun Cassidy for me)
Little girls can pop it , lock it and polka dot it.
Little girls love to go cruisin' down Main Street.
Little girls have their own language.
Little girls have their own "looks."
Little girls will grow up to be powerful young women.
Little girls remind us of what it was like to be little.
Little girls make the world a special place.
Peace.
Monday, May 4, 2009
Acceptance and First Communion
What an exciting and monumental week we had. Jessica received the "Acceptance" Citizenship Award at school. She also made her First Holy Communion. It was an absolutely gorgeous day. To make the event even more special, our ENTIRE family was chosen to take up the flowers that decorated the altar. I was so proud of her.
The "look."

Ricky walking his sister to the Church. He was so proud of her and made sure that her day was special. I can just see this same shot in about 25 years. The one shot I missed, is when he was fixing her veil.

Jessica waiting her turn to walk down the aisle. Just look at that expression. Who knows what she was thinking...

Family and cousins. The veil made it down the aisle, through the Offertory and that was it. Then it went on my head, then Mac Kenna's and eventually it was tossed into the back seat. I can see her now on her wedding day. Half the pictures she will have a veil on, the others she won't and the veil will make it's way onto many guests throughout the reception.

Jessica and daddy leaving the Church. If you look closely, they even walk in sync.
Jessica opted not to have a First Communion Celebration. Her choice was a trip to Build a Bear and dinner at Red Robin.
What a great week. Monumental and full of memories. Ricky was a great big brother, even surviving yet another trip to Build a Bear.
Another milestone in the life of my mammas. I love you Jessica.
Peace.
The "look."

Ricky walking his sister to the Church. He was so proud of her and made sure that her day was special. I can just see this same shot in about 25 years. The one shot I missed, is when he was fixing her veil.

Jessica waiting her turn to walk down the aisle. Just look at that expression. Who knows what she was thinking...


Family and cousins. The veil made it down the aisle, through the Offertory and that was it. Then it went on my head, then Mac Kenna's and eventually it was tossed into the back seat. I can see her now on her wedding day. Half the pictures she will have a veil on, the others she won't and the veil will make it's way onto many guests throughout the reception.

Jessica and daddy leaving the Church. If you look closely, they even walk in sync.
Jessica opted not to have a First Communion Celebration. Her choice was a trip to Build a Bear and dinner at Red Robin.What a great week. Monumental and full of memories. Ricky was a great big brother, even surviving yet another trip to Build a Bear.
Another milestone in the life of my mammas. I love you Jessica.
Peace.
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Happy Birthday Miss Twilight
Jessica's party is in the works...

Jessica's birthday really is in August, but with summer comes vacations and traveling friends. So once again we are celebrating while she is still in school. She is having a SLEEPOVER!!! I already hear the screaming! She is getting to choose a few...stress few friends over and we are planning an evening of fun...and you guessed it... the theme will be...TWILIGHT!
Peace

Jessica's birthday really is in August, but with summer comes vacations and traveling friends. So once again we are celebrating while she is still in school. She is having a SLEEPOVER!!! I already hear the screaming! She is getting to choose a few...stress few friends over and we are planning an evening of fun...and you guessed it... the theme will be...TWILIGHT!
Peace
Monday, April 20, 2009
Spring Break 2009
Spring Break 2009 is officially over! Being a teacher, I find myself counting down the days until this vacation arrives and it is today that I find myself counting the days until school is out. (35, in case you were wondering)
Last night we were at Red Robin and I was asked if I was glad that I was going back to work. I stopped and thought and said "yes." Ricky and Jessica looked at me crazy and I said, "because I am grateful that I still have a job." They agreed with my rationale and we went on talking about how life has changed over the past year. As I sat and listened I was pretty impressed about how they are handling the "recession at 1976."
Spring Break was to bring a cruise with 9 other crazy women down to Mexico. It had been planned, paid for and highly anticipated until I got the call. The call from my mom. My mom, who never interferes. NEVER! She asked me in a calm voice to not go. She had uneasy feelings about me going. Of course, I was not too thrilled but I thought long and hard and had to respect her request.
So instead of cruising, I was now going to be home. I am glad that I was. We are rarely home due to sports so it was a nice vacation from life itself. We stayed in our pajamas, went to the movies, I actually cooked, it was a nice BREAK.
Here are some highlights from 1976's Spring Break
Woodland Tournament
Twilight Easter
Swimming at the hotel
Hanging out with friends
2 homeruns in one game
a walk off HR to win the game while trying to be intentionally walked
one crappy situation that my kid rose above
Twilight
pajamas
sleeping in late
silence
Twilight
Hannah Montana Movie-a must see
17 Again-questionable
hanging out with cousins
Twlight
Hives
Hives and Benadryl
So loving Dr. Tan
Twilight
Modesto Tournament
a birthday party
John's Incredible Pizza
Hive medicine
Twilight
2-0
3-0
Grand Slam 300 feet
Championship Game
Twilight
4 innings pitched 11 strikeouts
Jessica getting to play and play and play
DVD player at tourney to watch Twilight
Jessica and Twilight
7 innings 1-0 Champs
Red Robin
showers
bed
I enjoy my kids. I love my kids. Sometimes I think I should have a break from my kids but when I am away from them, I want to be with them. The years are numbered before they move on. I am glad my mom asked me not to go. Believe me there are times I need my space but I love being a mom and I am blessed with the two kids God gave me.
So Spring Break 2009 has come and gone but the memories that I made with my two kids are there...forever.
Peace
Last night we were at Red Robin and I was asked if I was glad that I was going back to work. I stopped and thought and said "yes." Ricky and Jessica looked at me crazy and I said, "because I am grateful that I still have a job." They agreed with my rationale and we went on talking about how life has changed over the past year. As I sat and listened I was pretty impressed about how they are handling the "recession at 1976."
Spring Break was to bring a cruise with 9 other crazy women down to Mexico. It had been planned, paid for and highly anticipated until I got the call. The call from my mom. My mom, who never interferes. NEVER! She asked me in a calm voice to not go. She had uneasy feelings about me going. Of course, I was not too thrilled but I thought long and hard and had to respect her request.
So instead of cruising, I was now going to be home. I am glad that I was. We are rarely home due to sports so it was a nice vacation from life itself. We stayed in our pajamas, went to the movies, I actually cooked, it was a nice BREAK.
Here are some highlights from 1976's Spring Break
Woodland Tournament
Twilight Easter
Swimming at the hotel
Hanging out with friends
2 homeruns in one game
a walk off HR to win the game while trying to be intentionally walked
one crappy situation that my kid rose above
Twilight
pajamas
sleeping in late
silence
Twilight
Hannah Montana Movie-a must see
17 Again-questionable
hanging out with cousins
Twlight
Hives
Hives and Benadryl
So loving Dr. Tan
Twilight
Modesto Tournament
a birthday party
John's Incredible Pizza
Hive medicine
Twilight
2-0
3-0
Grand Slam 300 feet
Championship Game
Twilight
4 innings pitched 11 strikeouts
Jessica getting to play and play and play
DVD player at tourney to watch Twilight
Jessica and Twilight
7 innings 1-0 Champs
Red Robin
showers
bed
I enjoy my kids. I love my kids. Sometimes I think I should have a break from my kids but when I am away from them, I want to be with them. The years are numbered before they move on. I am glad my mom asked me not to go. Believe me there are times I need my space but I love being a mom and I am blessed with the two kids God gave me.
So Spring Break 2009 has come and gone but the memories that I made with my two kids are there...forever.
Peace
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Still
Still glad that my children want me present in their everyday lives.
Still glad that both of my parents are healthy and alive.
Still love having a bowl of cereal before bed.
Still do not like doing laundry.
Still enjoy watching Jessica light up as she sings.
Still amazed that she can do so much and only be 8.
Still grateful for my friends.
Still taking Xanax to cope.
Still grateful for Spring Break.
Still blessed to live on Fall Brook Court with the BEST neighbors in the world.
Still wondering why grown men need to pick on Ricky's athleticism.
Still grateful to see him walk up and shake a person's hands.
Still love my mom's pancakes and cream of wheat for breakfast.
Still glad that Jessica is artsy.
Still glad we have a home.
Still glad I have a job.
Still blessed to have crazy Max and Fenway.
Still glad there are Polar Bears.
Still love waking up and hearing the rain.
Still love the swoosh of the net or crack of the bat.
Still love and always will love, being a mom.
Still glad, I am me.
Peace.
Still glad that both of my parents are healthy and alive.
Still love having a bowl of cereal before bed.
Still do not like doing laundry.
Still enjoy watching Jessica light up as she sings.
Still amazed that she can do so much and only be 8.
Still grateful for my friends.
Still taking Xanax to cope.
Still grateful for Spring Break.
Still blessed to live on Fall Brook Court with the BEST neighbors in the world.
Still wondering why grown men need to pick on Ricky's athleticism.
Still grateful to see him walk up and shake a person's hands.
Still love my mom's pancakes and cream of wheat for breakfast.
Still glad that Jessica is artsy.
Still glad we have a home.
Still glad I have a job.
Still blessed to have crazy Max and Fenway.
Still glad there are Polar Bears.
Still love waking up and hearing the rain.
Still love the swoosh of the net or crack of the bat.
Still love and always will love, being a mom.
Still glad, I am me.
Peace.
Wednesday, April 1, 2009
The Quest for the Perfect Dress
May 2, 2009.
That date is set in stone. That is the day the Jessica will make her First Holy Communion. She has been attending Catechism Classes for the past two years and is excited about the big day. She is also looking forward to taking part in Communion at Mass and not just receiving a "blessing."
Well, good old mom here just thought I would just Google First Communion Dresses, click add to cart and we would be all set. Wrong! Most dresses won't ship till Jun 15th. I guess this is the peak time and having only one daughter... I missed that page in the handbook.
So off we went, store after store, catalog after catalog. Then, in the most oddest place, the lady busts out a catalog and her face brightens-"there it is, my dress." Of course, I am stressing thinking, June 15th delivery date, right? No, we will have "The Dress," next Wednesday.
As we left the store, hand in hand, she said, "see mom, we believed and it all worked out." Yes, Jessica, it all worked out. I love you.
Peace.
That date is set in stone. That is the day the Jessica will make her First Holy Communion. She has been attending Catechism Classes for the past two years and is excited about the big day. She is also looking forward to taking part in Communion at Mass and not just receiving a "blessing."
Well, good old mom here just thought I would just Google First Communion Dresses, click add to cart and we would be all set. Wrong! Most dresses won't ship till Jun 15th. I guess this is the peak time and having only one daughter... I missed that page in the handbook.
So off we went, store after store, catalog after catalog. Then, in the most oddest place, the lady busts out a catalog and her face brightens-"there it is, my dress." Of course, I am stressing thinking, June 15th delivery date, right? No, we will have "The Dress," next Wednesday.
As we left the store, hand in hand, she said, "see mom, we believed and it all worked out." Yes, Jessica, it all worked out. I love you.
Peace.
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